Wednesday, January 18, 2012

calm before the storm

Today my husband and I are haveing a cuddle day.  Tomorrow we have to go to court to see if the judge will close the deportation case against him.  We will be picking on each other tomorrow as we both get stressed out over this stuff.  They say the three most stressful things you can do is get married/divorced, move and, start a new job.  When I married Alex I did all three things at once. 

I moved from Wiscosin where I had lived for 23 years to a place where I only knew my husband.  started work at a new store and for the fist time found myself the minority since almost everyone I work with is African america, Haitian or Jamaican.  I learned  fast you don't get those three confused. 

I hate how I feel when we are waiting to go to court.  It is hard knowing what you love the most might be taken from you.